Would you like to know that I legitimately cannot finish unless my girlfriend is smiling? And I would presume I’m not unique in that regard.
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eatthecake@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Tha vast majority of men could not care care less about how the victims of their porn feel. Im fairly certain that an erection shuts down any empathy in most men.
idiomaddict@feddit.de 1 year ago
There’s literally a pheromone in womens tears that dampens arousal in men. Even if you’re not there to smell it, the body still responds to a degree. That’s not to say that no men can maintain an erection through a woman crying for any reason, but empathy does not drop for “most men” when they’re aroused.
Syrc@lemmy.world 1 year ago
There’s literally a pheromone in womens tears that dampens arousal in men.
What the FUCK
I mean that’s functional but how the hell did evolution do that
idiomaddict@feddit.de 1 year ago
Well, women are way more likely to sleep with you again and not shit talk you to their friends if you don’t ignore their discomfort during sex.
Syrc@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Sure, but evolution occurs over millennia, I don’t think it really mattered 5000 years ago when women were nearly slaves in most of the world.
Plus, it’s a system that overall hinders reproduction, while it’s great that it exists in a developed society wouldn’t it be a “dangerous” trait from an evolutionary standpoint? Are there any other animals with systems that dampen arousal? I’m really ignorant about all of this but it’s making me question how nature works lol
Syrc@lemmy.world 1 year ago
You clearly don’t understand how common erections are. High school boys would be rape machines 24/7 according to this reasoning.
synceDD@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Are you saying only empathy prevents you from raping others? I’m sad to inform you that most men don’t rape because they dont like it instead.
Syrc@lemmy.world 1 year ago
“Only”, empathy is key in having nearly all aspects of society work.
I mean, most boys in full puberty would stick it in pretty much anything if they could. The main things stopping them from doing it aside from negative consequences (as it’s slightly illegal and not really viewed in a positive light), is the fact that you would be harming another person and (luckily) most people are disturbed at achieving pleasure by inflicting severe emotional and/or physical damage to others. A person completely devoid of empathy or morals would have no issue doing that, and I’m assuming that’s what most rapists are.
I also assume the fact that (normal) people prefer consensual sex to rape is largely due to empathy. Happiness in bringing happiness.