Charitable comment of the decade right tere.
Noticed how they said “what to think”, not “how to feel”?
Comment on Another 62 ‘Girls Do Porn’ Victims Sue Pornhub for $600 Million
eatthecake@lemmy.world 8 months agoReally? You don’t know how to feel about jerking off to rape? I know how to feel about you. POS.
barsoap@lemm.ee 8 months ago
loopedcandle@lemmynsfw.com 8 months ago
Jeez. I know how to feel about the act itself. It’s awful of course. What I don’t know is how to deal with is knowing that I did that. I can’t change what I did and I can try my damnedest to not do it again. But how should I deal with knowing what I did and the guilt and shame post facto.
Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
For the record my guy, eatthecake is a raging lunatic. Keep doing better. No one’s perfect and realizing that some of the things you may have thought were ethical, aren’t is a good first step.
Don’t beat yourself up over it. Everyone makes mistakes, and the true harm was already done when the film was shot. Your contribution to the harm is minimal.
eatthecake@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Maybe you should think about your actions more in future. Look into the consequences. Donate some money to a shelter. If you’re actually sorry then you can try and contribute to helping the people you hurt. Kudos for recocgnising that you hsve caused hurt and caring.
eatthecake@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I doubt they have empathy, i also doubt the average porn watcher has empathy. Women have been screaming for years that the sex industry is abusive but we are howled down by the sex positive marketing industry. Its all about the money and men will pay for rape happily.
Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Funny hearing you of all people say anything about empathy.
eatthecake@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Ok, i feel for the victims so that means i have no empathy right? I really do think tbe rapists and violent assholes can die in a fire. So i should die in a fire. I get it.
mrnotoriousman@kbin.social 8 months ago
You know "average porn watcher" includes a very large percentage of women too, right? Every single comment of yours is filled with hateful nonsense.
eatthecake@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Bollocks, you think women cant be rapists?
Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Cool, I know what to think about you. Irrational and judgemental.
You’re really going to place blame at a dude who just saw what was, presumably, some good, legal porn on a legitimate source, freely available to anyone? Rather than the producers? Or in anywhere near equal measure? Enough to call them a piece of shit? Man I’m glad I don’t know you.
eatthecake@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Not all.of us see porn as necessary or useful. Let alone a right. Yall are pathetic addicts in my eyes. And you are absolutely responsible for ensuring that the porn you watch is adult and consensual.
Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
And you’re a raging social deviant in my eyes, willing to attack someone trying to do better around something society deems acceptable. We can do this all day, sling mud, and shout into the void, or we can have an actual dialog.
Also that’s ridiculous. Anyone manufacturing anything is the responsible party for ensuring their stuff is safe. Or have you never heard of a manufacturer recall? It’s the same principle. They made bad porn, they get the trouble.
eatthecake@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Yes i am a social deviant.
They made bad porn because people want it. People did this.
PurplePropagule@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Well… no. But even if viewers were, how do you go about ensuring that it’s abuse free? It’s not like you can just google the production company. There are plenty of times where there aren’t any publicly available allegations so you can never be sure. When it comes to amateur porn, how do you know if their partner is forcing them into it or not? There’s no way to prove anything for sure unless there is a public record of abuse allegations.