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WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today ⁨22⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

I was curious about what it would be like to have a fuck buddy for a while to be honest, thought it would be interesting and shit, unlike one-night stands.

Anyway, humans became too terrifying and morally repugnant recently to do anything like that.

Once some minimum standards, like human rights, international law, and just basic decency is restored, once there is some actual hope for this species going into the Jetsons future, instead of blade runner, or AM, then we can talk.

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socsa@piefed.social ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
I always fall in love with my fuck buddies because I am weak and what I actually crave is companionship.

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- WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today ⁨13⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  That would not be so bad if they were not there for just the fucking.
  
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thebestaquaman@lemmy.world ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
I’ve had a couple of those situations. In all cases it was a friend that I ended up getting horny with, and then we figured “why not?”. In all cases, the answer turned out to be that shit quickly gets complicated when people develop new feelings because they’re sleeping together.

Frankly, I have no issue with polyamorous people, but I honestly can’t understand how they get it to work. Every time I’ve slept with someone repeatedly over an extended period of time, it ended up fundamentally changing our relationship to the point where being with anyone else became an implicit no-go. I have no explanation for exactly why but those feelings just developed, no matter how much we promised each other they wouldn’t, and pretended they didn’t.

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- Schadrach@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  
  Frankly, I have no issue with polyamorous people, but I honestly can’t understand how they get it to work.
  
  Some people are just built different. I don’t understand how they get it to work either, but if it works for them, good for them. I don’t have to not think you’re weird to accept that you exist.
  
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flying_sheep@lemmy.ml ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
You’re much more likely for this to develop organically than finding someone through an app (which I inferred would be your plan since otherwise you wouldn’t be exposed to people in general)

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- WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today ⁨20⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  Yeah, it was I guess, find someone who is more like a friend (that you happen to also fuck), maybe the same approach for someone I don’t want to fuck (but for romantic reasons instead), or maybe both, no need for those to be exclusive.
  
  Now I’m exposed to people because I’m used to it I guess, but I’m prepping myself mentally to not depend on people, because I’m also used to be rejected as a bad person because I can’t do certain things. Like, being lazy for having ADHD. Mostly punished for things I can’t control, when I would rather be away from those people alltogether. I started prepping myself for a world that admits no rights.
  
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  - flying_sheep@lemmy.ml ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    No matter what world we live in, we can always find community. Sure, if it comes to full on fascism, finding it might be dangerous, but that’s not the case in many parts of the world.
    
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