Comment on /c/café daily chat thread for 28 September 2023
Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 year agoHave the same problem, except i’m the one that tend to drift away from everyone(like a hermit, but crab, hermit crab? 🦀), and have to force myself to spend time with others to prevent that(or to delay the inevitable 💀). Have been drifted away from secondary school friend and college friend before, both due to distance and difference in socmed platform, i think it’s happening again and i can’t stop it 💀
Naomikho@monyet.cc 1 year ago
*pat
I drifted away from most friends from school since they aren’t the type who are active on socmed(or they all have their own group chats in Whatsapp or somewhere, because I wasn’t the most liked person in school), but fortunately I’m still good with my uni mates and some online friends circles. I did get kicked out of one circle for being too inactive, but I don’t play the same games with them anymore and don’t share common interests with them(other than the game we used to play) so it was hard to catch up.
I think friends that stay the longest are those who you can just share anything with, even the lamest shit ever and they won’t care that much.
Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Yeah, same, for me it’s kinda i don’t have the time and the timing usually not allow me to have outing, and the distance didn’t help too. Kinda miss the time i could hangout with a bunch of friend doing absolutely nothing in car till midnight, just lying there lol.
Naomikho@monyet.cc 1 year ago
aw yeah distance is always a problem :( I got a wfh job opportunity, but I wouldn’t move home because all my friends are in kl/selangor ;_;
Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Better stay close with friend!