You could self host it anyway and just wait for the slow boil over at Discord to make the case for you. Surely they have only just begun making it worse.
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KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 days ago
My only resistance to leaving discord is that it’s where 99% of my gaming communities are. There’s no way I’m convincing hundreds of people to move off to something I self host, or to self host themselves. It’s just not feasible.
badgermurphy@lemmy.world 5 days ago
zatanas@lemmy.zip 6 days ago
Yeah I have the same issue.