Leaving reddit for Lemmy is a solo thing. It’s a personal choice, it doesn’t effect the others around you at fucking all.

Leaving discord for other services effects everyone around you a FUCKING LOT.

That’s the problem. You HAVE to bring your friends or not only are you giving up possibly the only way to communicate with them effectively but also fucking them over by basically threatening them with the loss of your friendship if they don’t inconvenience themselves to try some stupid new app over a problem they don’t see as remotely worth even giving a fuck about.

This is the problem most of us have right now. I have 3 servers with a total over nearly 2000 users combined. All 3 are talking about moving but the bare BARE minimum requirements in features and platform support doesn’t exist anywhere.

Discord works on every OS with all its features basically. Not a single other platform can say that. Someone somewhere gets fucked because this or that is isn’t fully supported. Or some key feature doesn’t work right.