Ubuntu is the starter distro. Start there. Figure out how this shit works and learn what you love and what you hate about it. Then you’ll be in a better position to find what you actually want.

Do not start with arch. That is not what it is for.

You don’t want kali. It solves a specific problem you do not have.

Avoid all immutable distros at first. They are great but add a layer of complexity that will fuck you if you don’t have the basics down first.