As a nonbinary person who still feels a bit unsure, THANK YOU for this long, well written answer. I’d give you gold points but idk if that’s a thing on lemmy.

I’m AFAB but I very often wish I could be included in the mens group, you know? I don’t really feel a desire to be part of a womens group tho. In many aspects I don’t really relate to many of those expectations like dressing up, makeup etc.