This is an annoying quirk in the way docker handles networking between containers and I couldn’t find a good solution for this issue when I was trying out network_mode. I just couldn’t find a way to set docker up to automatically restart the dependent container. You can achieve this with services defined in the same stack (using depends_on), but I don’t know if it’s possible with your current setup.

That’s why I mentioned manual routing in my other reply. It’s annoying to set up, but more convenient because you avoid having to manage restarts (or figuring out how to get docker to do it, which may not be possible in this case).