Whenever a 21-23-year-old is dating or is having sex with men or women. 10, 15, or 20 years older than them, people on Reddit, TikTok, and X will claim the 21-23-year-olds are automatically “victims” of abuse or “paedophilia”, but that’s just not true for the record.

You know social media does not represent general public opinion or the general opinion of experts in the field. It’s just random fucking people with megaphones.

Ignore it. If you’re in such a relationship be mindful of the pitfalls and listen to people you know in real life if they express concerns.

People need to stop automatically giving credence to the opinions of random Internet people. Yes, this opinion, too. Get back to real life.