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Regardless of whether I deserved it it already happened. There’s help for AFAB people who are cis, the rest of us are shit out of luck. I’m more worried about the VPO because that leads to not being able to get a job anymore

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FoxyFerengi@startrek.website ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
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- FATALRPG@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
  Bruh I’ve already called dozens of lawyers.
  
  AFABs don’t mean shit where I live, we have the highest incarceration right in the states for people defending themselves against abuse.
  
  I’m just going to kill myself I think. All of the advice is shit I’ve already done, now I’m unhirable and there is no help.
  
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  - FoxyFerengi@startrek.website ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
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    FATALRPG@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
    I have no money. I have negative money. I have been trying to get the bare minimum set up to move out of the country because when student loans come due there’s no fucking way of paying rent. I am trapped here. I have ZERO support of any fucking kind.
    
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  - pleasestopasking@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
    I’ve been actively suicidal before and it sucks, so I’m not gonna give you any “permanent solution to a temporary problem” bullshit. But what I learned in my extensive research is that it’s really hard to effectively kill yourself. If anything goes sideways, it’s pretty likely that you not only won’t die but your life will be way way worse. You think you’re unhirable now, just wait until you have a hypoxic brain injury.
    
    As the kids on tiktok were saying for a bit: suicide is cringe, don’t kill yourself
    
    Do you have anyone in your life you trust to talk to about this?
    
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    FATALRPG@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
    No I fucking don’t have anyone to talk to, that why I went here to get no actual advice so far.
    
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breezeblock@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
Why can’t you get a job anymore?

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- FATALRPG@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
  Because VPOs show up on background checks.
  
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  - thatonecoder@lemmy.ca ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
    I would have a plan, but it would be against the rules of this community, instance, my instance, and any Lemmy instance, the Fediverse in general, social media, and, overall, the internet.
    
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