Comment on Which conditions would make reject or quit your job?

• lucky@m.nrdblg.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  @onlinepersona @frozenmolar I thought I did make friends at my old job.
  These people do not seem very interested anymore, tho ._.

  That - and the fact, that my new job is fully remote and on the other side of the country - is why I don't at my new job.

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  • frozenmolar@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    That sounds really sad, did you try to connect with them? I usually try to connect with old friends with festival blessings, e.g. Christmas. This removes the awkwardness for not connecting for too long. Then you can follow up by questions like how things are going.

    But I guess sometimes it is really difficult to connect, since people just move on to dofferent stages of their lives.

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• frozenmolar@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Yes. I make friends in all my jobs. How about you?

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  • onlinepersona@programming.dev ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I’ve… tried? But despite being software developers, our interests often don’t align. I’ve gotten along well with many, but they’ve always stayed aquaintances. Back when I was younger and willing to go out and have a beer after work I did make more friends.

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    • frozenmolar@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      I do agree, sometimes it is difficult to chat within work hours because everyone is busy. And when you get older, you have commitments in family, and other plans, etc, getting even more difficult to make friends.

      I try to hang out with my colleagues, because i want to make friends and I still have time for that.

      But anyways, I felt that you can be a good friend! Felt bad for your colleagues missing the chance to make a good friend. (Sorry if that sounds odd because of my poor English)

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