Comment on How abnormal is it for a mother to be her son a fleshlight for his 18th birthday?

Mac@mander.xyz ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

• glimse@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  No, it’s definitely abnormal because it’s weird for a parent to help their offspring masturbate.

  What about a father buying his daughter a vibrator for her 18th birthday?

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  • Mac@mander.xyz ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Help??
    A sleeve is basically PPE. Do you know how common it is to have damage due to hand-to-hand combat instead of using one? Sleeves should be part of the sex talk.

    “Son, weve noticed blah blah blah. You should be using the proper tool for your body’s health and safety.”

    I’m not the authority to ask about vibrators.

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    • glimse@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      It’s not weird to make them aware of it or even suggest it. It’s weird to buy them one - especially as a birthday gift.

      “Dad and I thought long and hard about what to get you and we choose this masturbation tool because we thought about you masturbating”

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      • Mac@mander.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Every single one of you is applying extra context to the situation to purposefully make it weird.
        That’s fine, you are free to feel however you want about it.

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    • FuglyDuck@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      You don’t know if it’s appropriate for a father to buy their daughter a sex toy?

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      • Mac@mander.xyz ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Hello,
        Thank you for your response.

        Per my last comment you will see that i don’t consider myself in a position to make a judgement on that.
        This is because my knowledge of ‘toys’ for that particular genetalia is limited. You’ll note that my comment referring to the ‘toys’ to be used with a penis was about health and safety and didn’t mention pleasure at all. I am not in possession of the level of knowledge required to make similar judgements for ‘toys’ for any other genetalia.

        If you have any other questions feel free to shove them up your ass–make sure your choice in toy has a flared base or other method of extraction.

        Thank you.

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