“waaa somebody wants to solve a problem that has never affected me I’m the victim”

Everyone has the problem that they’d want to discuss others behind their back. It’s not accepted because it doesn’t work to any good end.

“omg what if people talk behind my back they might find out I’m an asshole? literally 1984”

You won’t find out anything from this. People sometimes lie, especially in such situations.

but if an article about cybersecurity gets posted and this is our first reaction, makes me lose hope in Lemmy.

Human adequacy is a big part of cybersecurity.