I don’t think they deserve it. It wouldn’t be undeserved for them to get help, but I don’t see why people would voluntarily contribute money to the devs for something like this.

And meanwhile every day you forgo your moral codes to buy all kinds of shit. Otherwise you’d be living in the middle of a remote island.

This is a different story, for exactly the reason that you pointed out. You can hardly even buy food, clothing, and shelter without inadvertently supporting an unethical business, but you still have to buy them. Supporting the development of a product that you could quite easily live without is truly a free choice by comparison.