Comment on A weight to bear
zqps@sh.itjust.works 10 months agoI’ve found that while shorter people often wish to be taller, tall women actually hate being made aware of their height. Even if it’s framed very positively.
I think they’re aware that some people (idiots) think it makes you less feminine. Usually due to their own insecurities.
As a tall man grown up in an area with predominantly short people, I can tell you, as teenager, I desired countless times of being less tall.
I dated tall women (>185cm) from US and Poland. They fucking hate it.
I seriously doubt they were bragging in this message
mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 months ago
Tall women are also often fetishized. There are lots of dudes who will try to date women simply because they’re tall. And that usually coincides with lots of “please step on me” types of DMs. That shit is exhausting, especially if you’re not a dom. It’s also a constant reminder that people want to date you purely because of how you look, the same way Asian women deal with dudes who have yellow fever.