Comment on The emotional support dunkies

kaeurennetwo@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

• Mac@mander.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  The only emotional support i have found is from myself. When friends/family say “don’t worry, buddy, it will get better” i recognize that they mean well but those sayings do nothing for me—in fact, they feel invalidating of my emotions.

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  • FreshLight@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Exactly! In contrast to that, if I experience “it getting better” it’s a totally different thing.

    When a friend of mine needs help I try to be sensitive but it’s still possible that I’ll drop a “Don’t worry, buddy, it will get better” myself. It’ll be honest, though.

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  • kaeurennetwo@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    It’s blurry

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• meyotch@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Not Dunkin’ apparently. He’s on the way back and looking no better. Maybe Starbies has what he needs?

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  • kaeurennetwo@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I’m sure one day God will let me enter his paradise… I’m tired of living life

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