Comment on Hate Being Called A Troll on Lemmy
Alice@hilariouschaos.com 21 hours ago
Don’t let it get to you. Honestly, I say this all the time, and I’ll say it again, once lemmy starts making you feel THAT type of way? That type of way that kinda gets under your skin?
That’s when I put lemmy down and don’t open it for a little while. I can not… use lemmy if I’m not taking breaks from it. Lemmy is just too political, and so are most of the users.
Something I remind myself, just from experience being here, is that most if not all lemmy users, do not want their minds to be changed or their views challenged. If you think about it, that’s why they’re all here.
Political tribalism and extremism is never fun. It bums me out too sometimes bc I just want to have fun here and make new friends. But, I’ve come to the realization a while ago, not to engage with political stuff here. It’s just something I can not do. It’ll drain you. At least it does for me and I use social media for fun so I do my best to stay away from those topics.
You’re not a troll. I know that so do other ppl. Some users are only calling you that to purposefully be rude and hurtful bc they’d never say something like that to anyone’s face. They can be visceral, but that doesn’t mean what they’re saying is true or holds any weight.
We appreciate your contributions on HC. It takes time and effort to post and can feel thankless at times I understand that. But I want you to know you are seen and appreciated.
Haters gunna hate. Let them, don’t give them the time of day. I hope you feel better ok ♥️
Lovstuhagen@hilariouschaos.com 20 hours ago
Thanks! Your post was absolutely what I needed… Just a reminder that someone else is out there with a positive perspective. ^^
It is Firday, anyway, and I do a bit of a digital detox every weekend… and this is a LONG weekend, going to spend it with the family and already have a lot of fun stuff planned. Another family may be coming over, and their dad is a punk rocker from back in the day with more tattoos than me (and I got sleeves…!), and I already told him that we might just sit in the living room listening to a bunch of old punk while the kids play… Plus the other good family friends we have just returned from their vacation…
It’s going to be a lovely, long Spring weekend with the tastes of early summer.
So, I will just enjoy the day and have a good, nice detox this weekend, lol. I do not even feel like stepping away right now. ^^
Alice@hilariouschaos.com 20 hours ago
Np anytime 😊! That sounds so fun! I know yall will have a good time 😎 weekends off is great, I know that’ll really help. I usually open up reddit if and when I’ve had enough of lemmy to cheer me up.
I love the stupid subs like shitty ask. The crazy shit they say makes me laugh and gets my mind off the negativity that can too often be found here sometimes.
I hope you have fun !