I tried both tandoor and mealie for recipe management and felt a little better about mealie, mostly because tandoor seemed to have more focus on shopping list and other things, and I didn’t want that at the time. Both are pretty easy to spin up on docker through a compose file.

Mealie is great for recipe management and the UI is nice. Tandoor was good also, but the UI felt less nice. (All personal preference).

Right now, I do grocery lists through listionic (I think) because i had it already and it handles oddball lists (gift ideas for s.o., gift ideas for kid, hardware store, etc). I do meal planning through a whiteboard with days of the week. I have four of them I rotate through.