Hmmm, well, I’m not one to judge a person’s proclivities, but I don’t see it as being much different than porn, assuming you are selfhosting a girlfriend for sexual release/companionship. I’m not sure I’d disclose this on a public forum, but maybe you feel a bit more comfortable than I.

The other consideration is that AI generally takes a pretty good chunk of resources to use effectively. I have selfhosted a couple of LLMs like GPTFree, Automattic111, and a couple more, however, as I mentioned, they take a lot of resources.

Might want to stock up