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Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Point of order: The penis CAN enter the cervix in women who have already given birth, and sometimes they can do tricks with it
That said, actually pushing up against the cervix unprepared for it ranges from discomfort to fucking painful for nearly all women
Source: WOAH MOMMA!
Ymer@feddit.dk 1 week ago
I mean this in the least horny way possible, but I’m going to need an actual source for that.
Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Nearly every website will tell you that it is impossible, that the cervical entry is the size of a thumb.
None of them even consider that during birth the cervix dilates significantly larger than any non-surgically altered human penis, and none of them mention the flexibility the cervix keeps after natural child birth.
Here’s an article that cites some doctors that aren’t fooled by generalizations:
www.promescent.com/blogs/…/cervix-penetration
The real source, the one that is useless to you unfortunately, is what that woman did to me. She told me it was going to happen, I thought I was prepared. I WAS NOT.
Find you a woman who knows how to use her cervix and it will CHANGE YOUR LIFE
Ymer@feddit.dk 1 week ago
From your source: “Even though cervix penetration is not actually anatomically possible, cervical stimulation is, and this can be enjoyable for some women.”
I’m actually willing to concede that cervical penetration is a theoretical possibility. Through daily sounding and dilation over a long period of time, you might be able to fit a penis. Even then, actually getting the penis through the cervix would be exceedingly difficult: The uterus isn’t fixed in a vertical position, on the contrary, it’ll usually be bent forward, backward or to the side. During sounding, it’ll usually be stabilized by a speculum at minimum. That wouldn’t be possible during intercourse, again making penile penetration of the cervix highly unlikely even if one was actively trying.
As for the changes after childbirth, they’re not as pronounced as you seem to think. The external orifice might change from a pinpoint to a short slit, but otherwise the cervix isn’t all that different. After all, one of its functions is to be able to keep a fetus in place more than once. Actual source: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1597273/
To sum up, no woman should be worried about their cervix being penetrated during normal intercourse, regardless of how many children they’ve had or how big their partner was. I can’t speak to what happened between you and your partner, but I guess all that matters is that you both found it enjoyable 😁