Comment on Am I a bad friend/rude for not engaging with my friends and giving one-word responses?
Novice_Idiot@lemmy.wtf 5 days ago
Yikes, are you ok? Being asocial is generally not regarded as being healthy. Also fyi, you’re at an age where you have to engage with friends to keep them, they will drift away otherwise. Loneliness is a massive bitch and I’d really difficult to get out of. Friendships like any relationship require maintenance. You’re neglecting your relationship maintenance at the moment if you continue, you will loose your friends.
CatDemons4@lemmings.world 4 days ago
Thank you. No I am not okay, thank you for asking. My friend just blocked me, apparently because she’s going to “leave me alone now”
Novice_Idiot@lemmy.wtf 3 days ago
Yeah, that checks out, but remember youre not a fundamentally bad person. You can possibly even salvage the friendship with apologies and doing some work on yourself. Either way, working on yourself is a good idea, it’s worth it just in general also.