Defederating from Hexbear would be a hugely disappointing move. They have a lot of insightful posts that I want to see interleaved with my other subscriptions. It would be a true shame to defederate from them because a subset of their users are immature/shitposters (where isn’t that the case?). The point of federation was to not require every user to have N separate accounts on every forum. They show up in everyone’s feed because they have a lot of users and activity. That’s a feature, not a bug success!