Comment on The State of Lemmy (drama)

allo@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

I think the “jealous europeans” part shouldn’t have been said. advice: Don’t say you or your country are better than others.

I literally joined sh.itjust.works because aggressive people are my weakness. If I post something with good energy and someone attacks, I’m not a brawl enjoyer; I go straight to kill mode. I considered Canadians a peaceful species, so I made an account here.

In my own realms it’s the aggressive people who attack others that I remove. I do not want my new users interacting with them, old users having to interact with them, them to appear to be the face and persontype of my place… I also rule with an iron fist tho. I value diverse ideologies and viewpoints but do not tolerate aggression.

Maybe you are not assertive enough in preventing bullying among your flock and one just reached up and bit you. A clear warning first and to make the bullied person feel they are not in the wrong, then send the bully to another instance if they continue.

Reminds me of a post where someone was being viciously attacked for innocently sharing their view.

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I actually felt I had to step in and reassure the poster they were ok after and it seemed to help.

I don’t know how people like that are allowed to roam the varying areas. Just make them reroll far away.

Seems like one of that type of person bit you and you lashed back and in so doing “overly defended” america in saying others are jealous; and then you got the downvotes.

I don’t see the hate of Americans issue as much as it being acceptable to viciously attack people if not personally sharing their viewpoint; and that shouldn’t actually be acceptable behavior. It should be highly looked down on and removed. Being civil isn’t just words; it’s the energy one conveys toward others.

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