It’s not even “chose an instance”. This is what my journey has been:

1. Chose an instance
2. Write an essay about why you wanted that one 3 never her reply, repeat 1 and 2
3. Get access, then instance goes offline. Repeat 1 and 2
4. Get another instance. They then bock piracy communities. Repeat 1 and 2
5. Land in lemm.ee.
6. Wait until I can block instances to get rid of nuances (everybody knows who I’m talking about)

Now try to get your non tech friends on board.